Porn and Alcohol

Now when I start this I'm pretty sure that half of my readers know the content. But still, maybe I will throw in a few more psycho stuff.

And before I start, your right, I was totally boozed up to bring about this topic. It was one of those days, you just trust your friends and leave all your senses to the white mischief in front of you. Its sad that we guys think that the more alcohol you can have in your body while retaining your senses is lousy. I feel that the whole purpose of alcohol is for you to loose yourself, and if that doesnt happen, you just wasted alcohol dood!

I have no idea what I did say or do that day, but the topic was introduced when I was beginning to lose my sense and as all my boozing friends know, any topic to lawan drunk is dangerous, you can never beat him!

Now, to the point, my revealation centered around the point that friendship between us guys solidified once we shared porn and alcohol. And as you guessed right, it was rebellion, all against lawan, again a dangerous stance as my buddies got to know that day :).

In my point of reference, a close pack is established only when they willingly share porn and alcohol. A lot of sharing goes around but if its not willingly, dood, you win. In my case, at first friendship was all about helping each other and understanding each other. Later I found that helping comes only after understanding and an important part after understanding, trust. Trust is something that may seem free flowing but it comes out only at the right time after a close knit group is created.
Understanding each other is a very important part of friendship as I said. We start as friends, in our language, after self introduction and then maintaining a specific proximity to certain individuals and then through dialogue and way of life a small volatile group is formed. This group then starts sharing stuff like ideas, ideals and a lot more stuff. Once a group is sufficiently well knit, someone props up the idea of porn / alcohol. Porn being the more preferred way. Now note this my dear friends, watching porn by itself has a lot of distinctions. Let me quote an extreme, this may be the time you realise one among you is gay and you need to kick him out into his own company! Freakin Homos! Then slowly you guys start sharing comments. This is something that happens in your subconscious, its done unknowingly and many will not accept the fact. Once you have got things settled down a bit, you step on ahead to alcohol. Guys with an uncontrollable tounge (read as: guys like me) will start blurting out their innermost secrets. Things like you decide, 'To the grave with me', will suddenly become, 'To the bottle with friends'. Oh and that happens a lot. Its not necessary that everyone starts blurting out stuff, but once someone has started it, it turns out to become a chain reaction and we start sharing stuff when we are fully conscious. This my friends is how the story unwinds......... letz see if we live to see the climax!